I am discovering that I do not neccesarily do well when my due dates are not solid. Or, rather, the due dates themselves are solid, but the work I have to do to accomplish them? Not so much.
I don’t know exactly why I let that get to me. I am a planner, a list maker, and a checker-offer of the to-do list extrordinaire. But when it comes to big projects, I tend to get a little overwhelmed. This is definitely something I need to work on, and I’ve been doing that by allowing myself time to NOT worry about it.
How’s that for a concept?
Instead of going crazy and scheduling out every instant of every day to get things done, I’ve been changing up my plans. Last night, I took the time to make spaghetti squash and meatballs for my best friends and have them over for dinner. While I need to spend tonight working on a poster, I just spontaneously agreed to go on a frozen yogurt adventure to try out the new fall flavors (snickerdoodle and oatmeal cookie, you guys. How could anyone possibly say no?)
While these little diversions should technically make me more nervous, they have the opposite effect. I think it’s because they remind me that there is life outside of the world of school and theatre. That’s hard to remember when you’re at such an incredibly intensive program. Sometimes you have to take the time to be a college kid. Weird that we have to remind ourselves of that, isn’t it? True BFA problems.
Other things I’ve been making little moments for this week…
- Bubble baths with shea butter
- Moments sitting and sipping an extra cup of coffee (I try to only have two a day, but…) while burning an amazing scented candle
- Reading a few articles in my Vogue september issue
- Planning out some dessert recipes I want to tackle in the near future
- Writing on this blog!
- Checking in with my favorite bloggers on Bloglovin
- Pinterest. I’m obsessed. But I’m going to let that be okay.
- Taking a moment to really invest in my devotional/Bible reading in the morning
- Going for walks
- Sitting out on my patio for a few minutes to just enjoy the weather
- Curling up and watching a little bit of a Food Network show or TLC (I thank my stars whenever The Pioneer Woman or Say Yes to the Dress is on)
- Running a little bit farther than I meant to (sometimes, devoting a little extra time to a work out can be the difference between an obligation and true enjoyment of the thing!)
- Chatting instead of doing homework in the campus cafe with my best friends
Hopefully you’re finding ways to get a little calm into your day during this busy start to the fall!